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A Very Warm Welcome!

Have you tried different versions of psychotherapy, all kinds of self-help books, and maybe non-violent communication & radically honest sharing? Have you tried to combine all this with different spiritual practices, meditation, prayers and wishes to the universe and all sorts of variations of religion? Perhaps you have also tried your hand at atheism for a while? And then you've moved on to Yoga, mindfulness, self-empowerment and all the other things that seem to help a lot of people out there, but you just don't seem to be getting the same results and you feel like there's either something deeply wrong with you OR there's more to you and to life than all these approaches offer, even if they all contain partial truths, but you just can't seem to bring it all together?

And then you oscillate between self-doubt, despair, resignation and the feeling that maybe you just need to lower your expectations, but sometimes..., sometimes you still wonder if there might not actually be an approach, a way of looking at the world and people that brings all these apparent either-or's; all these painful contradictions of Being together non-contradictory AND also makes all this personally and emotionally directly experienceable, tangible and embodyable?

i'm so glad you found your way here. 

What if there was a way to experience yourself as a contradiction-free wholeness? Would you like to explore to what extent only your protective aspects and unhealed soul fears stand in your way of being fully you as a human being, being fully in the world as a soul, being fully in the eternal enlightened Now and being fully with, in and off the Divine without giving up your individual, sacred Self? 

If you are looking for someone to support you on your individual journey of healing and self-exploration; someone to guide you through the landscape of your scared heart so that you can heal and embody your Sacred Heart, you might have been guided to the "right place".

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Hi, my name is Iona. I moved to Ireland in early 2024 after a lifetime of feeling the call of my heart and my love for this country and its people. I am finally home. 

For me personally, this move and everything that goes with it and what it means for me was only possible because I am rigorously and continuously trying to heal myself from my conditioned, wounded Self to my essential Soul Self. So what I am offering here is not just a therapeutic method with effective tools: It is a way of life that I have personally tried and tested over the last 25 years and with which I have helped many individuals, couples and groups over the last 20 years. 

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So, what about you?

 

Have you ever asked yourself who you really are beyond your strategies and adaptive mechanisms?

Do you sense that you are living more of a conditioned, strategic, adapted Self

than embodying who & what you naturally are in Essence?

Are you longing to really get to know yourself?

Do you long to experience directly what your deepest essence is?

Do you have the feeling that traumas & confusions from your childhood/adolescencehave

not yet been emotionally digested/integrated?

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A common view to this day is that most of our psychological or emotional challenges in life are due to brain chemistry. We are expected to learn how to deal with them in order to function in society. In my own process and through supporting many other people on their soul journey, I have realized more and more that we can actually heal our emotional wounds and conditioning and not just learn coping strategies for psychological problems.

My truth is that our so-called psychological problems are actually not rooted in the mind (mental health issues), but in the Heart. What if our emotional landscape actually resides in our Emotional Body? What if our emotions exist prior to our mind/mental body and certainly prior to our physical brain? What if "We feel, therefore we are" rather then "We think, therefore we are"?

What if our emotional wounds and conditioning from this and other lives are the only reason we can't directly experience our own Soul Essence as Love and Goodness?
And what if that is the only reason why we cannot directly experience Divine Being as what it really IS, instead of believing in It, not believing in It, rejecting It altogether or perhaps even hating It? 

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More and more people of all ages and at all stages of life are asking themselves questions such as

  • Who am I beyond what I can think, analyse and philosophize about myself?

  • Why am I here? Why do I exist and what is my deepest purpose as Soul and as a Human Being?

 

Some people look to the East and begin to meditate. Some people look to religion or New Age for guidance. But almost all traditional spiritual teachings say you have to choose between Self and Soul, between Self and Non-Duality, between Self and the Divine. You have to give up your personal life and your personal Self in order to enlighten; you have to get rid of your ego to be truly spiritual; you shell overcome your sinful I to be with God, right?

 

Does all of that leave you with a vague or even clear sense of brokenness and/or dividedness within you?

As if your Soul Being does not fit into your humaness?

Or as if your spiritual stillness & love do not fit into your man/womanhood?

Do you feel that something deep inside you is deeply wounded, lost or wrong? Are you longing to rediscover, feel, experience and embody your true essential goodness and wholeness?

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What if there was a way to simultaneously be an emotionally mature person, while experiencing lasting enlightenment and liberation from the dominance of the mind and be truly, deeply, emotivly & soulfully God-realised?

In the work I offer through InDivinality, we explore that these realms are not separate at all and you don't have to choose: Your individuality is contained within the Divine and the Divine resides within your individuality.

You can finally be whole.

What heals us from the inside out is to feel our human emotion at a soul- depth level. The more we learn to embody our ensouled Self, the more we can be in this world while not being of this world. There is no essential brokenness, badness, darkness or separateness, only 4 core fears of the Soul that can be processed and gradually healed:

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The Soul Fear of really being who we are; the terror of being a seemingly separate individual.

Diving deeper into soul fear means shedding your protective layers, finding your wounded layers and finally finding yourself at the essence level: the you that you really are, beyond all conditioning. It's about healing at the soul level the fear of being; of existence, of being truly alive and being who you really are in this world: being vulnerable, loving, embodying your passion and your soul gifts in your work and embodying all that you are.

If you want to know more about how to explore who you truly are, please click on this link and translate & read the text: 

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The soul's fear of being nothing beyond the body-mind, the physical shell, of not being a soul at all.
As you delve deeper into this soul fear, you get a more and more profound sense of what is eternal and infinite about you. 
You begin to get felt memories from your experiences as a soul in other incarnations and a connection to issues, challenges and imprints you brought with you into this lifetime. This helps to feel deeper and deeper who you are at the soul essence level? Who were you before you were born? What is your essential individual core nature? What are your soul gifts? What is inherently you?

If you want to explore more deeply where you come from as a soul, please click on this link and translate & read the text:

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The soul's fear of being extinguishable: of no longer having an individual consciousness of your own; of dying and disappearing at the soul level. 
Diving deep into this soul fear can lead to what is traditionally called nondual enlightenment: awakening from the dominance of the mind into a directly and nakedly felt Now in the context of stillness/spaciousness/depth/infinity/peace. 
But we will not meditate our way there to reach this state of mind and heart: we will feel our way through an unhealed fear of the soul: the terror of non-being.

If you want to explore more deeply what you are beyong your mind, please click on this link and translate & read the text:

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The soul's fear of being meaningless and a will-less puppet of the Divine; powerless and at the mercy of the Divine. 
A deeper dive into this fear of the soul illuminates the access to what the divine being really is and what its will is. It is also about feeling what your purpose is by healing your wounded personal will at the soul level, bringing it into alignment with the divine will.

If you want to explore more deeply why you exist & what your deepest essence as child of the Divine is, please click on this link and translate & read the text:

If this all sounds a bit technical and abstract to you, perhaps you can relate to these questions:

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  • Who would you have become if you had received everything you really needed as a soul in human form from your parents in your childhood, so that you would have felt safe in yourself, as yourself and in the world?

  • Are you interested in what your past lives have to do with your current challenges and wish you had more conscious access to them?

  • Are you seeking enlightenment? Do you long for a deeply felt truth that comes not from thinking/analysing/philosophising but from heart realisation and soul wisdom?

  • Have you perhaps already had an enlightenment/awakening experience and would like to be guided to integrate it more deeply and embody it more fully in your daily life and relationships?

  • Or has your awakening experience left you in a place of confusion; a sense of no longer being viable in society and you need help to find your Sacred SoulSelf again in the Vastness-Allness-Nothingness-Stillness-EternalPeace? What if you could have and embody both: a sense of individual Selfhood AND NonDuality, without any contradiction at all?

  • Are you tired of believing in God? Or tired of rejecting the idea of God altogether? Tired of being an atheist simply because faith is too dumb for you? Are you instead longing for a direct experience of the Divine; for a consciously experienced, fully lived relationship with the UltimateLove of the DivineParentBeing?

  • Are you fed up, wounded by or simply dissatisfied with what religion has to offer? Do you feel that you are neither inherently bad because of some original sin, nor that your sense of Self is simply an illusion?

  • Have you tried many psychological & spiritual paths that may have done real good for many of the people you know, only you are always left hungry or with more questions?

 

InDivinality is meta-paradigmatic and meta-denominational in orientation and forms an emotive and experiential Dharma (healing path): InDivinality's Heart-Soul-Source Alignment Dharma is a psycho-spiritual healing path that places emotions at the centre of HeartHealing & Spirituality/Enlightenment, so that you can awaken directly through your eternally individual HeartScape into your SoulBeing and DivineSelf without having to leave behind or transcend your personal self in the process.

It is not about overcoming yourself, but about self-healing.

From an emotio-spiritually matured self, there is no longer any difference between you and the Divine: The apparent dualism and the mind-created boundary of I-here and God-there disappear.

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You may have very specific questions that do not have much to do with the topics mentioned above

  • About your relationship?

  • About your job, passion and/or money issues?

  • About parenting/parenthood? About how to heartfully and healthily deal with "difficult" children/teens?

  • About abuse issues?

  • Sexuality & sexual orientation?

  • Gender identity?

  • Adoption?

  • Trauma from spiritual teachers/church?

  • Anything completely different?

 

Please don't hesitate to bring to the sessions with me whatever is on your mind and in your heart! ​Whatever is concerning you is the perfect starting point to find out who you really are and how you can be more in the world and in your life.

The sessions can take place via Skype, or if you live in or near the south of Co. Sligo, Ireland, you can also attend in person.

Please feel free to contact me for further questions at indivinality@gmail.com

I will work on translating more texts into English in the future.

Until then, please be so kind as to put the existing German texts

through a good translation programme yourself to deepen your study of InDivinality.

Information on my fee:

60 minutes €100

75 minutes €125

90 minutes €150

Couple session: 120 minutes €240

plus VAT (13,5%)

 

Cancellation deadlines for individual/couple sessions

As Heart Dialogue sessions with me last between 60 and 120 minutes, the agreed time is reserved exclusively for one client (or one couple). Therefore, I reserve the right to charge in full for appointments that have not been cancelled at least 48 hours in advance, regardless of the reason for the cancellation.

 

Treatment conditions/Disclaimer

Users of this website make use of our information at their own risk. We do not accept any responsibility for any real or subjectively perceived harm that may result from the use of our written information or in personal work with us. We do not make any healing promises with our texts and personal teachings, talks, individual consultations and seminars and do not guarantee in any way any psychological, emotional, physical or spiritual "result". Federal law states that certain physical/psychological illnesses (e.g. acute psychoses) may only be treated by licensed medical physicians. Anyone who contacts us with emotional, physical and/or spiritual challenges, illnesses or other issues to work with InDivinality does so with the full understanding that we are not doctors or psychiatrists. We do not claim at any point that our services are a substitute for medical/psychological treatment.InDivinality facilitator Iona von der Werth has a certified alternative practitioner's (Heilpraktiker) licence under German law. On this basis she is legally allowed to work therapeutically with people, both physically and psychologically. In addition, she has developed professionally over many years on the basis of her individual spiritual gifts and has continued to deepen her seat of being through her own ongoing inner healing processes. What she offers on this basis in and through InDivinality can be described as alternative-medical, alternative-psychotherapeutic, holistic, individual-emotional, transpersonal-spiritual and intuitive soul guidance.If you contact Iona for her services, you fully and without exception agree to take full responsibility for your own emotional, psychological, spiritual, physical and mental health and all decisions you make in these domains. This applies both in the personal encounters with Iona and in all life situations outside the direct InDivinality work.

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